persnickety

  
 per-SNIK-i-tee  , adjective;
 
1.
Overparticular; fussy.
2.
Snobbish or having the aloof attitude of a snob.
3.
Requiring painstaking care.

After long periods of days of being persnickety, in every sense of the word, I just want to be carried by someone whose forearms can help me bear the load my brain dumps on me. I like your arms, because they act as shield and weapon at the same time.